Introducing sex toys to your bedroom with minimal fuss

Introducing sex toys to your bedroom can often be a troublesome topic to bring up with your partner. There’s no right time to introduce the idea. It’s best to wait until you’ve built up enough trust and communication, in all aspects of your relationship. Read on for some helpful tips on how to discuss the subject with your partner that you can implement with ease.

Making the suggestion

Despite the fact that sex toys are becoming an increasingly more socially acceptable aspect of modern sexuality, many people are petrified at the thought of suggesting the idea because they’re afraid of how their partner will react.

The fact of the matter is that men and women who use sex toys actually report higher levels of sexual satisfaction. The advancements in sex toy technology in recent years is simply mind-blowing. For instance, users of the Pulse II male masturbator report that they have ”experienced a more powerful and prolonged orgasm and that it is like learning to masturbate all over again”.

To start the conversation with your partner, your first action should be to try talking openly about your sexual needs and triggers. If you’re comfortable taking about sex, it will help put your partner at ease. Don’t leave this until during, or after, a steamy sex session when your hormones are raging uncontrollably; this is just a recipe for disaster!

It’s important that you offer lots of reassurance and appreciation to your partner for your current sex life. You don’t want to make it sound like a complaint. Some people can be particularly sensitive about this, so make sure you ease into the topic nicely.

Dealing with intimidation

Perhaps your partner is willing to entertain the idea of introducing sex toys, but you can’t help but feel that he or she is slightly intimidated by some of the toys you’ve been browsing through online. It’s best to start small and work your way up.

If your partner is feeling standoffish at the thought of a device ”replacing” them, start with toys that are beginner-focused, easy-to-use and ones that don’t have a weird or wacky design.

It’s best to choose a toy that you can use together. There are a plethora of items on the market these days that are designed specifically for use during full sex. Start exploring now, and whatever you do, have fun!

Cock Rings: The Perfect Beginner’s Sex Toy

A cock ring is used to make an erect penis harder and bigger for longer, as well as to delay and heighten orgasm. Cock rings work by constricting blood flow, keeping blood in the shaft of the penis. When the user finally does ejaculate, the sensation is more intense, since it took a longer time to come, and because the penis is filled with additional blood.

Men use cock rings with partners and/or by themselves. Some are actual rings as their name suggests, made of metal or rubber. Since these cock rings are not adjustable, the right size needs to be chosen for a proper fit. For example, one that fits too tightly could be hard to remove and could cut off circulation in the penis entirely. Metal rings can cause a rash or other skin reactions in some men, so this is something to consider when shopping around. Adjustable cock rings made of rawhide or leather straps are easier for beginners to use since the fit can be changed, and taking them off is more manageable. Avoid using cock ring substitutes; rubber bands, binder clips, and vices, for example, cause too much constriction.

Cock rings fit over the shaft and the testicles/scrotum when a man is not erect. Ball by ball, the testicles go through, then the penis shaft dives in head first through the remaining ring space. The ideal cock ring stays in place when the penis is soft, yet it can fairly easily slip off or unsnap when the penis is hard. Lube can be added to make putting rings on and taking them off a little easier — something that works for finger and toe rings, too.

For safety and pleasure, a cock ring needs to increase the size of the erection only slightly. If you notice more pronounced swelling, then the fit is too tight. In that case, take the cock ring off immediately. It’s also vital for men to take off their cock ring at the first sign of pain or if the genitals feel cold. In addition, it’s dangerous to leave a ring on for too long, including wearing one to sleep when spontaneous erections are all the rage.

All in all, cock rings are great sex toys to give you a boost in the bedroom. A stretchy cock ring is a great option for a first-time sex toy. If you desire added excitement, why not try out a vibrating cock ring for extra pleasure.